Wandering aimlessly through the airport shops I found this little book winking at me, still had some 6 hours for the check-in process to start for my flight and sure this book interested me as a companion, it was like buy at first sight syndrome that caught, even thou I hesitated a bit and was thinking 5 times before I finally bought this, its a book on how to communicate effectively/How to talk to anyone. The tips are pretty interesting, and here is a gist from a chapter that talked about communication with people close to you, your close friends or loved ones et al..

Communicating is hard especially with someone you’re close to (or want to be close to) because it means opening up, letting them know how you feel, letting them know what you really care about, letting them see you cry. It makes you vulnerable: maybe they’ll think less of you; maybe they’ll use it to hurt you or manipulate you.
But once you get close enough to a person, then its much better to spit it out rather than keep things into oneself, this kind of suppressing the thoughts or feelings increases the pressure inside you and makes you more nervous.
How on earth would you expect the other person to know what and why you are feeling the way you feel, nobody is a mind reader, its just that we can find to an extent that something is not all right, the rest is with each other to come to common grounds and settle the matter, be it anything, if you say you cant share certain things, then you are not in true love, for true love needs trust and if you have enough trust then there is nothing called a barrier between the minds involved.

Now that’s pretty …..